I considered joining on multiple occasions.
But due to various circumstances, I decided to never join.
In the end, I'm just not mentally stable enough.
I have family and friends who joined,
and it kickstarted their lives in fairly positive ways.
The people who should join the military don't need to be convinced to do so.
If you want to join bc you want to,
you're probably the right person to go in.
If you need a bunch of people and recruiters telling you that you should join,
but you're skeptical, then you're probably not right for it.