My home site, and despite its controversy, it's still a very good platform with nice people who are naturally kind to you. The gender thing isn't a meme though, I've seen literally everyone around me announce that they're demisexual genderfluid individuals who identify as their spirit animals.>>2673124
Finally, something that criticizes tumblr for anything other than "MUH FEMINISM". To be honest, I rarely experience the problem you're describing. I tend to have more issues with some photos not loading up properly and I have to refresh the page just for that.