In and on itself no it isn't gay but there's like lots of things at play here, and it's okay to be bi.
Are you atleast a little bit interested in the dick? That's atleast a little gay then
Do you really see them as women, or like failed men or something? That's an important factor
What sexual role do you see yourself having with them, or do with/get done to you? Also important
How do you feel about SRS?
The best tool we have for describing things such as this to date is the kinsey scale.
Traps are atleast a little gay if not under these circumstances:>You are actually straight, not even a little bi>You see them as real women, not as a failed male or something else>You would prefer it if they had SRS so they would be more like the real woman you see them as and you would prefer vagina since that is what being straight means (secondary aswell as primary sexual characteristics)
But again it's like totally okay to be bi and if you like something you shouldn't feel ashamed or trapped by labels and percieved sexuality.
Also hi norway, I appreciate the sentiment you have for people like me I guess