I am a feminist and I don't even humor these virgins. You have to act like a good girl, or else men and other women will judge you (even though they all do it).
Every mother has three duties to her children: to provide love, to provide money and to ensure they have the good genes. If you can't find all three in the same place, it's your duty to look somewhere else.
Women have done this for generations and men never even knew. They are too egotistical to be able to understand any kind of greater good that doesn't benefit them personally.
My husband, for example, has a good job, and is a good guy, also OK in bed, but he is too short and skinny to attract anyone. Out of my three sons, the only one that is really his is the weakest, ugliest and sickest of the bunch, annoying and needy, even HE likes him less than the rest.
So do yourself a favor and stop looking for a strong attractive man, just find one who has money and seduce the shit out of him, then fuck whoever is good enough to have kids with. They won't even notice, or care, since they would probably spend their entire lives alone if they insisted on biological children.