I was born and raised a woman with a vagina. I can give birth. I don't need to dilate.
As for dilating, you d-don't dilate a vulva dear, t-that's the external part of the female reproductive organs.
That said, if you are accusing me of having a penis, as people are doing in this thread, how can you ALSO ask me if I'm dilating? You can't dilate a penis, no matter how hard you sound.