I think I've got it most obscure. I have a high heels fetish but I am absolutely 100% dom. The height doesn't do anything for me one way or the other; I would actually prefer if the woman is still shorter than me while wearing the heels, although if she's taller I don't really care either. It's not a pure object fetish either, as an unworn shoe by itself doesn't do much for me beyond imagining what it looks like on a cute girl's foot. I don't crossdress either, I have zero desire to wear them myself (that feels gay to me and I don't find myself attractive).
What gets me is the aesthetic of the heel as it looks on a cute foot. The lines and curves of the vamp, the toe cleavage, the line of the top of the foot as it travels from the ankle to the vamp, the angle of the heel and ankle as its rotated on the heel of the shoe. I actually have a very specific range that I like. Super tall platforms, super high angle heels, and that clear stripper heel material are all instant boner-kills for me. It fucks up the aesthetic for me.
Two things that suck about this fetish for me. One, it's hard to explain to people, and they usually reply with something like "oh, well that's not a fetish, most guys like heels." Well no, most guys don't want to blast a load into the shoe and make their wife wear them to work like that, or most guys don't wish their partners would pause sex and deliberately go put heels on before continuing sex. The idea of high heels being an necessary and important component of the sexual experience gets me fucking diamonds.