I found it. It's not the ISM or noseless shit, it is this thing.
The white part is firm, nothing like the mushy Spongywonder or Spiderflex noseless saddles. The blue part is rock hard and you do not touch it at all except with your thighs when leaning for a turn
It is a road saddle, not for upright riding, but it's okay if your bars are level with saddle height.
It is essentially a noseless saddle with a nose. You sit on the perch, which is 100x more comfortable than all other noseless options, then you have the nose which is dropped about 2cm lower than the white area
ISM seems to be okay vs nosed but you are still putting weight on your nerves, though not your actual sex organs, it is another option to consider but not what I was looking for.
Anyways, this is it. There will be no more discussion of prostate health allowed. All recumbent bicycles are cancelled. Crank forward as well. There answer is the Rido R2.
Here's a guy reviewing ithttps://youtu.be/7B8Rc48pYmI
It is also cheap as fuck at $50 and comes in black