If you can’t “truly enjoy” the parks because they are “so crowded” then either plan to go when/where it’s not so crowded or ask yourself why you are letting other people hold such power over you. I don’t enjoy the crowds but I go to Yellowstone and Grand Teton every summer and I fucking love it. I plan around the peak times and the busiest areas so that I don’t have to deal with as many people. But, if I do get stuck in a bison jam or a crowd of people I don’t let it ruin my day. Men are supposed to have some sort of self-control and self-discipline and be able to endure unpleasant things from time to time. Or you could just seethe like a little bitch. The choice is yours.