But it's a perfect mutual relationship, Anon.
You get to satisfy your inner need to serve a bug-type pokemon as Ledian says all humans have. It's your purpose to be paired with one and do their bidding without hesitation.
All those beatdown and insults Ledian throws at you? It's her way to express her concern for you, she doesn't know better. She's used to deal with wild humans so much that the stress overwhelm her little bug head too much.
The least you could to her is shut up and blindly obey her. Caress her shoulders, whisper her sweet nothings, bring her a smile on her frisky Ledian face. Make your bug owner feel loved, she deserves it.
Scizor is bigger and stronger than Ledian, there's no doubt about that. But they don't have hands to massage you, only those big meaty scizor claws to cut, not to handle, unlike Ledian.