Well said man. >Your woman can't /just/ enjoy your company, it is not enough to build a relationship upon.
If I'm putting the blame where it truly lies it is all on my dumb ass for not getting out there and trying to meet people or put effort into my current relationships. If I invested time my chances of making those friends would certainly be better than they are now. Although in my experience I've usually been able to tell almost immediately when I run into someone I really click with.
But that isn't really the point. I guess I'm really just complaining about entropy. It seems like all of the best relationships I've experienced have fizzled out over time due to time and distance. And now I don't have the energy or the optimism to get my current relationships to that level. Again, the blame is really on me, but it still sucks.