My ex starts getting lonely, as she cut off (what I thought was) one of her closest friends. She starts hanging out with someone who would constantly flake on her and obviously does not really want to hang out with her when she doesn't have weed (lets call him Jon). I tell her this and she doesn't believe me and gets mad, calling me controlling. I bring up that I've never had issues with anyone else but this one guy who treats you like shit. She got mad and didn't talk to me for a couple days.
Over these couple days Jon asked my ex to let him and his gf spend the night. I say what a bad idea that is because the gf is a pyro/kleptomaniac. Ex ignores my advice and says that they can spend the night if they bring booze and/or weed. A couple hours before they were gonna be there, Jon flakes and asks if just his gf can spend the night there. Ex agrees (even though she dislikes Jon's gf) and expects booze/pot as payment. Jon's gf has about 3 sips of mead for ex.
That night ex finds email that says she lost her scholarship, basically killing her chances of going to the same school as last semester. At least that's what she said. For all I know she just wanted to go to this new school where she has more friends and doesn't have a boyfriend that she has to pay back 500$ at this point (as well as a birthday gift, because of course she didn't get me one.)
The next morning Jon's gf takes an Uber to Jon's house to trip acid. They both turn off their phones and ex freaks out, "they need a trip sitter," even though they've both done acid before and regularly.