Do what's better for you. Sometimes you gotta go back on your word. It's not your grandma that you promised to keep sending letters to; it's some girl who is doing her own thing it and you should do the same. If she gets offended by that then she feels something for you but it might not be romantic.>>6440039
Dated a girl with PTSD, Depression, and DPD. Shit was work and I was not treated well. I felt rewarded when she wrote me a note saying I got her out of the darkest pit of her life.
She later developed abusive tendencies and left me after telling me I was like all the other (abusive) men in her life after I said I wanted to have sex and she didn't. I felt like scum for months.
Yet she stuck with the last guy despite cheating on her while abusing her anyway possible. I understand that she developed higher standards but fuck man, life isn't fair for anyone.