Man I wanted to say that I've been on your spot before. But no. Having to leave each other while you still love yourselves, I can't even imagine that. However, you now have two options. If you have been long enough together and you know you want something more from it, you should just move in with her.
The other option is that she really wasn't all that precious to you. You can't get anything for free, you have to sacrifice something for you an her (the first option).
Either move on or in with her. Those are your only option. Moving on is not that bad, as I said before I've been in a long term relationship which I ended for various reasons and I'm already better off. You get to have a new perspective on life, you have different options and, most importantly, there is always someone for you out there who might even be better! It's hard to believe now, I understand, but it's true. Trust me anon.
Hope this helps.