First off anon, if you live in the city, leave.
Move to small town America (or Europe if that's where you live).
You say you're not meant for this world because that's the best way popular culture allows you to express yourself. You are meant to feel like an outsider.
Think of it this way: you've grown up with images of a space age that will never come. I see papes all over this site depicting a future that cannot - and will not exist.
Grow things, make things, read, work out. The girlfriend you idolize will not even exist if our current system continues. Be the change you wish to see in your community, there are millions of young men just like you. I was just like you.
I still don't have the quintessential "gf" that is seen as the end goal.
I believe the misconception anons have is the idea that "if i get the gf, i will then change." no, motherfucker. The qt gf will only come to you if you care about your community. Women have a natural inclination to nurture and care, why would I want to date someone who chooses to disassociate with his community? Why would I care to pass on that genetic stock?
I don't have all the answers, but I know where I'm from. I'm not a vacuous urban charlatan. My ancestors worked to provide me with a better future. That is our priority, the rest will follow.
It is not that you weren't meant for the world, you were made for the traditional world. The modern world simply is not made for traditional men. Fix yourself, and fix your problems. Otherwise die a lonesome sack of shit anons are supposed to be.
It's only up to you. Instead of playing that one dota game, go for a run or learn basic farming instead.
Wallpaper related. This is the ideal, not some basic bitch "wow city lights" bullshit.