This morning I was thinking about fantasies like this.
I think it's likely that you and I might be happier if we spent less time yearning for certain places and certain experiences, and instead spent our time inhabiting the ones we have. This place I live could be very nice, I think, if my soul inhabited it more. I would spend more time making it nice. And more time appreciating it.
Instead I spend so much time looking through this window at ifs and maybes.