Alright, here's what you do OP:>>7162758
Be yourself, don't put on a mask to impress women - that mask has to come off eventually.>>7162749
Don't fear rejection: not every woman is a woman you want to be with, and if she rejects you - fine, there's plenty others out there.>>7162768
Also stop caring, just go "fuck it, I'll talk to her because I have nothing to lose"
It doesn't matter if you spill spaghetti unless you let out that you're a lolifag or you want to rape and carve up women.
Some women find it cute when guys like yourself (read: boys) spill spaghetti.
Be honest, be yourself, be straightforward, don't get too down because of rejection, don't care about spilling spaghetti.