If you think that you 'should' then it will cause you a conflict .
The truth is what is and what should be is a fantasy, suggested imagination or a terrible lie told to people long a go.
Sp see what life is have a full awareness about feelings and needs and only then is possible to see opportunity, how to make life more wonderful based on observable truth and not on suggested imagination about what you 'should' .
Please do as I request (((Only))) if you can do so with a joy of the little child feeding hungry duck.
Please please please do not do as I request, if there is any of the following mixed in even in the tiniest degree: any fear of punishment if you don't do, any doing it for reword that I like you better if you do, out of any shame or guilt or duty or obligation. Life is too short for us to do anything for each other, if any think like that are mixed up in to the giving.
Family vs Sodomy