i feel like there's a bit of a misconception about flamers
you ever wonder why they're like that?
its to let you know they're gay
why do they need to let you know?
because just looking at someone you can't tell, and gay men are actually a minority. so how's someone find anyone other than turning that shit up to 10 like a beacon to another homo?
i understand it i think even if i don't do it. i've had horrible luck finding partners irl just because of where i live, but i bet if i wore a massive badge saying "faggot" at least someone else who's gay would try to make a pass.