Its cause you're not going on discord with sole purpose of getting some dick tonight which means you actually have to make people interested in you instead.>>6913637
Oh, I see. Next time you go out get a drink first, will probably help with your anxiety, don't get too drunk though. Also if you really just want to fuck set a goal of getting laid beforehand and try sticking to it.
And if you're really desperate, tinder exists for a reason.