Yeah I'm not really a cold heartless monster that /bant/ portrays me as. I genuinely do care for you pathetic shitposting assholes that spend all day shitting on me.
I mean it.>so there's only so much we can do when it comes to meeting up
Your distance will close as your relationship goes on. The more you both improve your situation personally and financially the smaller the gap will get. What's a couple hundred bucks for a weekend trip if you have a full time job that offers time off requests if you get to meet someone you love for the first time?
As you help each other in life you'll both become more successful and grow closer over time both physically and emotionally. You'll learn what you each have to offer each other and where you can help each other improve.
Once you get into each others heads enough you'll feel the distance becomes nothing.
Even when I'm out and about it's like Cute™ is with me because I know what he would look at, what sounds he'd react to and where he'd want to go. Even though I've never met him IRL. We're only a state away from each other though.
As you become closer time becomes less of an issue as well.
You'll see days turn into weeks, weeks into months and before you know it you've had this person in your life for a year. You start to build your future with them included in it. You can't imagine what your life was like before them or what it would be like after.
In every way this person is part of you. Something that you were missing you never knew you needed. This inter-connectivity will propel you both to do the extreme.
Make time and pull the trigger anon. If you don't you'll always look back thinking of what you could've done.
Take it from my old ass I've got plenty of failure to launches, missed connections and regrets.
Shit here's to you Reddit. In another time and another place maybe.
Sorry to ramble but all the same don't let distance be an issue its only a few bucks anon.