This fetish never appealed to me. In fact I'm probably pretty vanilla by most standards. My gf and I do rape play and light bondage, but those things were her idea. But while I may not get off to it, it makes my hear ache. Like, I think I understand how people develope that fetish. My parents were so distant, and growing up sometimes all I wanted was a hug, or some form of physical affection from my mom, and I never received it. As fucked as it sounds, I see that and think that it would have been nice if someone, anyone had come by and filled that lonely void. Eventually the time for that sort of thing passes by, but the emptiness never leaves.