I get that, but you’ve got to look at the big picture, which you’re finally doing.
Referring them to female pronouns only furthers their mental illness. The delusion that they’re a girl never lasts forever, especially when they hit around 30 and their looks take a sharp nose dive - assuming they were even passable in the first place, which most aren’t.
That delusion crashes hard and burns like an inferno, every time; and you do NOT want to be around when that inevitably happens.
I’m glad you’re noticing what I’m talking about, you’re looking with eyes open and perceiving with an open mind.
Because this storm is about to hit hard, and I want you to be spared the worst of it. The reason I became an ex-gayposter on /bant/ (for the most part) is because I saw how soulless it is. The same rituals are performed each time, the same flirts, the same compliments. It was genuinely sucking the life out of this board, especially when good threads would get derailed into gay threads which I admittedly played a large role in. And worse, it was attracting tr*nnies like moths to a flame. Plus nobody in particular wants to see that, especially when it’s better kept in discord without the captchas, spamming, image and reply limits, post cooldowns, and most importantly, PRIVACY.