Some people say that happiness comes from simply wanting to be happy. I thought it was some easy-philosophy bullshit. But it actually is the case man. If you want to be happy and change your mindset you start acting in a way that makes you even more happy. it's not an easy thing and it takes some time of course but if you don't have any reasons not to be happy it might very well work for you. >>7076191
Congrats on quitting man, whats's going on with your gf ? >>7076212
Hahaha, as the others said, enjoy the ride and you'll reconsider if you're still good in a while. You're not fucking up right now, but you might if you end it, cause once it's done it's done. >>7076214
Keep it going man, your wife should be happy you're al least there. I think you're not the only one going through such a thing, maybe seek someone competent to speak to ? And yeah he will grow and maybe you'll have some more interest. >>7076267
You're keeping up good actually man. I'm 21 and just finished my studies. Was not easy. And with all you've got going on I can understand it's hard.
Maybe you need the screen time to put up with all the other bullshit ? I know I can spend days on the computer when the rest of life is fucking my life up.
You're already doing a lot of good by standing by your mum and studying. Allow yourself to feel exhausted. And maybe go and speak to a profesional about all this? I didn't want to at the beginning but it did a lot of good to me. The key is to find the person that gets you, so feel free to try a few. >>7076273
It's okay man, we all make bad choices. As you said, at least you're addressing them, that's the only way it's gonna get better. And you have the chance to have a gf that seems to care about you, so free your soul and speak to her about how you FEEL>>7076320
Do tell more about your life man, seems interesting :)